I completely understand how tough it can be to start that conversation about future care needs. It’s never easy, but when I had to talk with my loved one, I approached it gently and with a lot of empathy. I found that choosing the right moment—when we were both calm and comfortable—made a big difference. I tried to focus on their feelings and preferences, which helped keep the conversation from feeling overwhelming.

My advice would be to listen more than you talk, and let them lead where possible. It’s important to be patient and open, even if the conversation takes time. How did you approach it? I’d love to hear others’ experiences and any advice you can share—it could really help those of us navigating this difficult topic.